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  • This conference is an invitation to interdisciplinary conversation about the ‘how’ of relationship-centred practice - the nature and quality of relationships between practitioners, children, and young people that make the difference, how these relationships are built, sustained, and achieve good, and the dilemmas we encounter in seeking to work with children and young people in this way.

    Our experiences of working in the way, which have sometimes felt in spite of processes and policies around us rather than because of them, is that it’s difficult - it is messy, complex, and ever unfolding. We think we need more conversation across policy, practice and research that brings us together to sit in this complexity within and across organisational boundaries.

    And so at our inaugural Love and Power Conference we’re doing just that; we are gathering as a community that’s brimming with expertise, recognising that meaningful change is not located in any individual but in the space between all of us, each with our different identities, life experiences, and professional roles and responsibilities. We encourage everyone to talk at the edge of their comfort zones and disagree agreeably. It is a space for not knowing as much as knowing, and unlearning as much as learning.

    If you’re joining us in person, we are so looking forward to welcoming you on the 7th July, and if not this year, then we hope you will join us next year - we suspect this is just the start.

    Amy and Martin

  • SHiFT exists to break the destructive cycle of children and young people caught up in, or at risk of, crime. We do this by building consistent and trusted relationships with young people and everyone important in their lives, using the Breaking Cycles ingredients to inform all aspects of our systemic, anti-racist and anti-oppressive practice.

    SHiFT is scaling high impact ‘insider-outsider’ Practices across the UK, with the aim of demonstrating that it is possible for practice, including within statutory services, to be delivered differently to secure better, long term, safeguarding, public protection, and fiscal outcomes.

    Through practice, and evidence of its impacts, we seek to influence policy and practice locally, regionally, and nationally so that SHiFT becomes business as usual within existing teams and structures. Our aim is to become the way of working with vulnerable adolescents across all services relevant to their lives.

    Find out more here.

  • Though we sometimes use different language to describe it, there is growing cross-disciplinary consensus that the right sort of relationships between practitioners, children and young people, and services designed to prioritise and enable these relationships, are ‘the magic’ in enabling growth and change. This includes practitioners’ work with children experiencing adversity, risk, and challenge, whether that be in school, the home, in family or peer relationships, or in the community.

    The ‘right’ sort of relationship is variously described as ‘with and alongside’ rather than ‘done to or done for’, and ‘high support and high challenge’, combining ongoing positive regard – an underlying belief in the person’s worth, dignity and potential – with power – enforced expectations, boundaries, and consequences.

    To put relationships at the heart of change making, is to see relationships as the most critical mechanism for enabling change and to locate opportunities for change relationally and contextually, while also attending to opportunities for change within the individual.

    Practitioners working with children and young people, whether teachers or social workers, youth justice officers or youth workers, are all always, in a sense, treading a tightrope of love and power in their practice. They must become experts in developing these relationships and mobilising them in support of a child’s safety, wellbeing, and achievement, in operational and organisational contexts that are rarely optimised to enable this work. The challenges of walking this tightrope and staying relationship-centred can become especially pronounced in moments of crisis which include moments where children and young people cause, or are thought to be at risk of causing, serious harm to themselves or others. We see particular challenges – and opportunities – in the duality of practitioners holding both the support and challenge / enforcement functions as part of their work.

    In locating opportunities for change contextually and relationally practice can come into sharp tension with underlying structures and cultures within public services that are antagonistic to this way of practicing. As Carlene Firmin and colleagues have recently described, these foundational assumptions and contexts – ‘ruling relations’ – include (1) individualism - structures and cultures that prioritise the assessment of individuals who are case managed or receive interventions with the aim of creating a sense of control; (2) a focus on mitigating risk/threat over a focus on creating safety or maximising wellbeing, expressed through thresholds and arising challenges in accessing resource where risk-based gate keeping criteria are not met; (3) tensions between (criminal) justice outcomes and children’s interests; and (4) institutional and structural discrimination, including racism and under-resourcing, that are often unaddressed and sometimes reproduced by safeguarding systems, which ignore the structural/system drivers of harm.

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09:00 Breakfast refreshments together

09:30 Welcome. Professor Martin Griffiths, Chair of Board of Trustees, SHiFT

09:45 Hilary Cottam in conversation with Josh MacAlister OBE MP

10:30 Reflections and Q&A

10:45 Tea break + book signing of ‘The Work We Need’ by Hilary Cottam

11:00 Parallel workshops

Workshop A: Doing right by the child: Self, ego, and whose needs in practice

Workshop B: Staying in the complexity: Navigating boundaries and risk

(see details below)

12:30 Lunch together

13:00 Parallel workshops

Workshop A: Stepping in to step back: Endings and transitions

Workshop B: Going for gold: Weaving networks of hope to influence systems

(see details below)

14:30 Tea break

14:45 Concluding panel discussion: So what?

15:45 Closing remarks. Dr Amy Ludlow, Chief Executive, SHiFT

16:00 Close

M O R N I N G

w o r k s h o p a

Doing right by the child: Self, ego, and whose needs in practice

w o r k s h o p b

Staying in the complexity: Navigating boundaries and risk

Thank you for joining us.

THE SHiFT MOVEMENT IS GROWING.